5 easy steps to please your date!

Pleasing your date is not science, there is no magical formula or a universal recipe for success, but there are a couple of things that can guarantee you victory in bed!

We know how challenging it can be as an escort to find, in a short period of time, his soft spots and his likes and dislikes in bed, especially when you are dealing with a shy, introvert or a with a guy reluctant to collaborate with you.

That’s why we come in your help with some things that have proven efficient in most cases, on a large number of men. Try them yourself and enjoy having a relaxed, satisfied client!

 1.      Offer a clear, easy to use website/profile page

Having a good presence online means starting off the relationship on the right foot. A good online presence means: good quality photo portfolio that can show your versatility (elegant, outdoorsy, sexy, playful and so on); a complete service and price list; an enticing description of yourself and accurate contact information.

All the information that he might need must be easily accessible, clear and explicit. Be flirty, positive, fun and sweet and try to entice your dates imagination.

 2.      Be honest and clear about the services that you provide

Always ask your client how he envisions your time together and what fantasies is he eager to fulfil in your company. Try to find out all kind of details about his likes and dislikes in bed, so that when you two meet, you can be properly prepared for your date.

Don’t sell something that you’re not offering! Be honest about your service list and firm when it comes to the services that you are not willing to perform. Don’t let him think that there is room for negotiation, because if he feels that there is, he will try to convince you to do those things during your time together and that is not ok, not for you nor for him.

If there are things that you are not willing to do with him tell him that in a clear and positive way, offering instead an alternative, another service you are really good at. Try to leave the impression that you have only his well-being in mind and that you try to find the middle ground so that he can be happy.

And the most important thing, respect the promises that you have made over the phone and on your website! If you openly say that you are doing a certain type of service, you can’t take it back during the date, because it is called cheating your partner’s expectations and that will cause you a very bad reputation.

 3.      Pay attention to your date’s reactions

People are different, bizarre and unique and you have to treat every single one of your dates according to their personalities and nature. You may come across a date that is very open, responsive and talkative and ready to go straight to business, but you may also come across men that are more shy, introvert or sceptic and with this type of guy you have to take your time and warm him up.

Talk to him, read his body language and pay attention to all of the details that he might give you. This way you will know exactly what buttons to push in order to get him started and in the right mood.

 4.      Don’t forget about compliments and affection

No man is a cold hard rock when it comes to compliments. Make him feel like a stud, take him out of his shell and give him confidence! Encourage him to be himself and if you manage to do that you’ve got yourself a regular. See his strong points and go from there.

Keep in mind that many of your clients are looking for more than just sex. They are looking for a person that can make them feel good, feel special, powerful, sexy, strong and appreciated. Or maybe they are just craving for a little bit of affection. Touch him, hug him, caress him, listen to him when he talks to you and offer his a sweet, sympathetic smile. He will appreciate you for that and he will keep on coming to see you!

Of course, not all of them are affection seekers, many are just in for the sex, but in time you will manage to read all of your clients and discover what each and every one of them is looking in you: a mistress, a confidant, a sweet girl, a fun partner and so on.

 5.      Let him decide who’s the boss

Maybe he is sick and tired of being in charge and he is now looking for someone to take the lead and make the decisions for him, or maybe on the contrary, he is frustrated by his job, colleagues, life partner and so on and he is looking for an occasion where he can take the lead and be in command.

You will never know what kind of date he is at first, that’s why it’s important to take a step back, let him talk to you, analyse him and then see in what typology does he fit in.

Try and follow these five easy steps and you will see that you will be one step closer to making your partner happy. And also, keep in mind that you may also stumble across some hard headed, unhappy and hard to please dates.

Don’t let yourself be disappointed by their lack of enthusiasm or feedback. Take them as they are and also remind yourself that some men are not that vocal when it comes to saying how pleased and satisfied they are about your services.