A first timer’s guide to dating an escort. Rules to follow!

Dating an escort for the first time can be really stressful, especially if you are not feeling comfortable with the idea or you are really shy and don’t want to screw it up from the beginning. That’s why it is very important to know the rules of conduct when dating a professional lover and follow them until you feel comfortable enough and you get how things work.

First of all, do not be afraid of not looking like a top model, or of having some extra pounds, a bold spot or not being a sex god in bed, because a professional companion will look pass that and will help you go over all your insecurities and fears. So, rest assure, cause your date will treat you perfect, no matter your looks or income, as long as you are well-mannered and you can pay the fee for your time together.

1.      Research is the key in dating a new escort

When you plan on dating an escort you’ve never seen before, do your homework in advance and research her so that you may be sure that she is a real professional and not a scam. Check if she has a website, if she has ads and reviews. If she is a real pro, expect to be screened before setting up a date. Screening is her way of keeping herself safe by making sure you are a reliable person.

2.      Do not ask too many questions or be late

Asking to many questions regarding the services, the length of the meeting and the fees over the phone may raise suspicions, so read the profile of the escort really carefully and you will probably find all the answers to your questions there.

Also, do not be late when setting up a date with an escort. She may have a tight schedule and running more than 10 minutes late is a sign of rudeness from your behalf. But, if you know you won’t be able to respect the exact time of the appointment, make sure to let her know in advance.

Another thing to know is that if you arrive 10, 15 or 20 minutes late that doesn’t mean that your date will extend pass the initial time, the minutes you’re late are cut out of your time together!

3.      Know the proper escort slang

The Internet provides all the necessary information regarding the most common escort slang terms. Read them in order to know exactly what an escort is talking about when she is listing among other services, things like: CIM, CIF, GFE, greek, A level. This way you make sure the two of you are talking the same language and that you know exactly what services you’re booking.

4.      Be discreet and pay up front

When dating an escort, the first thing that you have to do is place the money in a visible place when starting the encounter. Do not give her directly the money! Also, do not overstay your welcome and if you want to extend your time together ask her politely if she has the availability for that. Do not insist if she says that she has other meetings to attend.

Remember that she is a real person, with feelings and emotions, so treat her well, with respect and not in a superior manner, especially if you want to see her again.

5.      Your pleasure comes first

That’s the great thing about dating a professional escort – your satisfaction is always top priority for her and you don’t have to worry about blowing her mind sexually speaking. Relax and let her take care of you and offer you some incredible, new sensations!

Another important thing to consider is to respect the services you’ve agreed upon in advance and not insist on services she specifically said she is not up for. Be a gentleman!

6.      Leave right after, if you want to!

An escort is not your wife, fiancé or girlfriend. You don’t have to spoon with her, talk or kiss after having sex, and that’s the fun of dating an escort! You don’t have any kind of obligations towards her, so after you’re done you can leave right away without feeling obliged to chit-chat.

7.      Always ask before posting a review

Some escorts don’t want to have online reviews, while others like reviews but don’t like the ones that are too explicit. So, if you are really happy with the way your date went and you want to post a review online, ask the lady if she agrees and what type of review she prefers.

8.      Personal hygiene is very important

Never go on a date with an escort without taking care of your personal hygiene in advance! Wash, shave and groom what needs to be groomed and your date will be so grateful. But, if you didn’t had time to do all that routine in advance, do not worry, ask your date to wait a few seconds while you go take a shower. Having a good hygiene is a sign of respect for both you and your partner for the night.

9.      Bring a gift if you want to impress her

If you want to make a perfect first impression, come at the date prepared with a nice bottle of wine or champagne or with some fine chocolates. She will surely remember you and be glad to see you again next time. When you get to know the escort better, the gifts can be more personalised, but for the beginning this should do!

10.  Tip if you felt amazing

You’ve had an amazing first experience? Do not forget to tip your escort as a sign of your appreciation and satisfaction. Tipping is optional, but is always seen with good eyes if it comes at the end of a really good escort date.

Follow the rules listed above and you should be just fine at your first escort date. Remember: be respectful, polite and relaxed and she will do the rest for you!