Anticipating Your Client's Needs and Desires

Like any other type of service provider, an escort works within a possibly profitable business. Thus, professionalism is key in making an escort’s introduction into the trade successful, and although the money is what most companions appreciate best about the industry, you should never make your clients feel like that is the only reason you are with them.

While working as an escort, you will meet a wide range of customers. You will meet the husband, who isn’t getting his fill of kink activities at home. You will meet the businessman, who, despite being successful and charming, has no time to date. You will meet men who feel unappreciated in various ways, as well as men who are lonely.

However, the services you offer aren’t just fulfilling their basic physical desires. By being their companion for an evening, you are acknowledging their existence and that is enough for many. Nonetheless, in order to become a top escort, you need to do more than that. You need to make your clients feel amazing, and in order to do so you need to anticipate their needs and desires and satisfy all of them (just as long as you feel comfortable).

This is where the difference is made between an average escort and a real companion. Of course this is a business and you should never lose track of your focus, but you clients need to feel special, so creating a memorable experience for them will keep them coming back for more.

Ask your clients questions before meeting, but don’t be too intrusive. Many customers are, perhaps to others’ surprise, quite shy and will feel uncomfortable if you bombard them with personal questions or sexual preferences. Find other ways to ask what they’d like, such as “How could I make our time together special for you?”, “Would you like us to do anything in particular?”, “Do you prefer a certain type of lingerie?”

You have to test each person out, tread the waters before going to deep into your customers’ needs and desires – of course, if your client hasn’t told you everything there is to tell from the get-go. Overall, it’s important that you show your customers that you are interested in making them happy. Be attentive, make eye contact, listen to their stories, be genuine and try to make each experience seem unique. You’ll have regular clients in no time flat!

(Pictured above is Emma Moore, age 28, from Copenhagen, Denmark)