Are You An Anal Virgin? Learn How To Make Anal Enjoyable!

Being an escort doesn’t automatically turn you into a wild and crazy sex machine and it also doesn’t mean that you are a pornstar, highly experienced in all sex related positions, toys and games. That’s why it is not a must to be an A level queen when entering the escorting world.

But, if you feel like making this step and trying to offer anal sex to your clients then you should better read our list of suggestions, in order to be prepared and to know how to take it step by step.

- Take your time in order to relax and get into the mood. We suggest trying anal after a hot sexual encounter and after an intense orgasm. This way you are relaxed and have less inhibitions and stress.

- If you are at your first attempts, then maybe the right atmosphere can make a difference. Dim the lights, drink a glass of wine, loosen up and enjoy yourself.

- Just like you discovered how you like to be touched through masturbation, in the same way you should figure out anal sex. Massage yourself gently and learn to relax your muscles.

- Try using dark sheets in case the situation becomes a little messy.

- Always have wet wipes by the bed for a fast clean up.

- Buy good quality lube! Good, water based lube is a vital ingredient to successful anal sex. And keep in mind that there is no such thing as too much lube in anal!

- Use a condom! Also, don’t forget to change the condom when you go from anal to vaginal and vice versa.

- Once the tip of the penis goes in, everything will feel much better because the head of the penis is the widest part. Don’t forget to relax your pubococcygeus muscles, a.k.a “the butthole muscles” and remember that even if you’re feeling like you’re about to poop, for sure you will not.

- Try anal in the doggy style or on the missionary position in order to control the penetration. You don’t want to tear your anus apart by using a position that allows a deeper penetration. Keeping your leg closer together may also help because it implies less pressure on the anus, easing the penetration.

- Take a shower right after you’ve had anal sex, for hygiene purposes.

- Try eating more fibers a couple of days prior to having anal sex. It helps by cleaning the intestines, but don’t forget to be very well hydrated. Also, try drinking juices and smoothies and eating soup, in order to keep things moving.

- You can also try an enema before, just to be sure that everything is nice and clean down there.

- Do the dildo check – if you are still afraid that you are not completely clean, do a dildo check. That means that you have to insert a dildo into your anus and if it comes out clean, then you have nothing to worry about.

- Maintain the virginal appearance. Many clients want to feel they are the first to conquer your back door, so you can try acting the part, for their sake.

Best positions to try anal:

Face to Face – a position that offers intimacy and access for extra sensitive areas – like the clitoris or the breasts. The woman on top also has a higher control of the rhythm.

The Cowgirl – the partner lies down while the woman is on top. This way she can ease the penetration and control the intensity of the moves. It also allows the girl to offer extra stimulation to her partner while maintaining the shallow penetration.

On the stomach – very comfortable, it allows easy access and helps both partners to relax. The woman can also stimulate her clit for extra pleasure, using a vibrator.

Doggie Style – from this position the woman can control the penetration and also can remain relaxed. It is a highly recommended pose for first timers because of the control that it provides for both partners and because it allows double penetration and clit stimulation.

Be relaxed and try anal only if you find it really enjoyable. Also, keep in mind to always use a condom, to change it when going from vaginal to anal and back and to use a lot of high quality lube. Remember our advice and have fun!