Don’t write this on your escort profile!

14.09.21

Joggling between being an escort and keeping your personal life private can be a really hard thing to do, especially when you have to keep track of what information you choose to share with your clients and what part of your life you want to keep separated and secured from prying eyes.

A common mistake that especially new escorts tend to do is over-sharing personal information, thinking that this way they get a better chance of attracting attention and luring in new clients to date, but sharing too much of your personal information can backfire and even put you in a dangerous situation.

So, here are a few of the things that you must never display on your profile:

  1. Your personal phone number

It may seem obvious for some of you, that your personal phone number should be kept just as it is….personal! But sometimes rookie escorts that are eager to start their escorting activity have the tendency of skipping this very important step, of going out and buying a special phone and sim card, specially for their escorting activity.

Never combine your work hours with your personal life, or you’ll end up without a clear boundary between your free time and your activity as a professional escort. Having your personal phone number displayed on your escort profile makes you prone to calls at all hours of the day, without being able to clearly choose when to answer work and when not to, because in most cases you just don’t know who is calling – it may be your landlord or it may be a clingy client that you are trying to avoid, or it may be that awesome, rich guy you’ve dated last week!

  1. Your home address

Doing incalls and mentioning that in your escort profile, does not make it necessary for your to also display your incall address. This is a private information you will disclose only after you’ve done a little background check on your client, and you feel ok with meeting him at your incall location.

By putting your incall address for everyone to see it can put you in a very dangerous situation, because anyone can pop-up unannounced at your door, or stalk you or even follow you. There are a lot of creeps out there, so stay safe and share as little personal information as possible!

  1. Your personal email address

The first thing to do when starting to work in the escorting industry is creating a completely new escort identity, totally separated from your personal life – a different name, phone number and email address. This way you are making sure that you won’t mix your personal life with your escorting life. And for your own sanity and quality of life, we strongly recommend that you keep those two apart, so that you can have a breather from time to time, away from clients, dates, fetishes, and your client’s unfulfilled desires.

Having a different email address for your escorting activity also allows you to keep track of your dates and of the conversations you are having with your clients, escort agencies and escort directories, without mixing them with other personal emails, shopping newsletters, bills and so on.

For your own sake, keep your life as compartmentalized and clean as possible, so that you can have a place to retreat and recharge your batteries when you are feeling overwhelmed by your escort duties.

  1. Your social media personal profiles

When joining the ranks of escorts, you may want to also use social media as a place to promote your escort activity and to attract new clients, and that’s actually a pretty good strategy, but our advice is to create some brand-new social media profiles for your escort identity, separated from your personal accounts.

Use your escort nickname and create a Twitter, Instagram, Tinder  account and so on, but make sure you are posting things related only to your life as an escort. Do not leak any personal information, such as the license plates on your car, a photo in front of your house, a photo with a family member or a close friend, or a photo with you at the gym, where the gym name can be seen by others, because you never know who is watching your profile, and who may become obsessed with you and with your life, stalking you or invading your personal space by showing up in all your favorite places or sending you inappropriate messages. Be aware of what you choose to post and to disclose when it comes to your daily activities or your daily life.

 

Stay safe, that’s the number one priority when starting your life as a professional escort. Do not over share things, screen your clients carefully and only after you feel super comfortable with them you can share different aspects of your personal life if you really want that.

 

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