Escorting as a part-time job. How can you make it work!

If you are new in the escorting world and you think of keeping your day job, but don’t know how to make things work for you, your family, your boyfriend and so on, here is a short guide on how to balance it all.

First of all, being a part-time escort and having another job in the same time implies you to accustom yourself with the shift work.

Having a normal job during the day and being an escort during the night means you have to make some changes in your lifestyle, be more balanced, eat better, sleep whenever you have time and have a very good schedule that you must follow!

1.      A flexible escort schedule won’t work for you!

You might be inclined to think that having a flexible schedule and squeezing your dates whenever you have some time off can be a good thing for them and for your newly started business, but it’s not. This will only incline you to have a messy daily routine that can change anytime and will let your clients think that you are available at any given moment, allowing them to be intrusive in your personal time.

If you lose a client because he doesn’t understand that you also have a life and you can’t be always available for him, then that’s his lost and that’s the risk of the trade. Being well organized means having a good work-life balance and that’s more important than making some fast money!

2.      Have a good, uninteresting, cover story

Keep it simple and boring when making a cover story for your time dedicated to escorting. Having a cover story with too many details will attract more attention and will make it difficult for you to recall all the things you’ve said. Invent a boring second job or some night classes, that allows you to “work the night shift”.

You might be inclined to think that your family or friends are more open-minded than they really are. That’s why we advise you to think twice if you want to share with them the details regarding your new escorting activity. We are talking about an activity covered in mystery, that people tend to think the worst about, because they don’t really know the facts. So, protect yourself and your family by telling about your activity to the ones close to you, that understand you and won’t bad mouth you.

3.      Have a trust circle

Even if you decide to keep your new lifestyle a secret, it’s important for your state of mind to have a good support system that can offer you advice when you feel overwhelmed. So, try to make some friends in the escorting industry, to talk and meet with, in order to exchange ideas, questions and worries you might have. This way you will feel better, having someone that understands your struggles and the new problems you are dealing with.

4.      Find a solution for your family life

If you have a family or you are a single mom, you must find a solution to balance your new working situation and the personal life. You won’t be able to have the evenings dedicated to your family, so you must think of ways to make things work for you, like a day of the week when no matter what, you won’t book dates, or having Sunday dedicated entirely to your family, or waking up early to make family breakfast a new tradition in your house.

Also, find a good babysitter that can be a constant presence in your kid’s life. You having to work the nights is already a change that they need to adapt to, in this situation bringing a new babysitter every evening is another change that they don’t need in their life.

5.      Don’t over-book yourself

Juggling with a day job and a new escorting activity can be pretty stressful, so don’t fall into the trap of over-scheduling yourself, because that won’t leave you with any time for yourself. This way you will soon feel tired, cranky, nervous and depressed, lacking some well-deserved pampering time.

So, don’t stop doing the things that you like and make you feel better! If doing yoga in the morning keeps you balanced, or jogging gives you energy, or a weekly meeting with your friends keeps you in a good mood, continue to do that! Do not leave your personal life on second place for a date or two, because being in a good state of mind means handling all your tasks successfully.

Let us know if our tips helped you get more comfortable with starting the escorting life as a second job.