How to Interact with Submissive Escorts - Part 1

If you’re a fan of BDSM and just booked an escort who specializes in that, you must really be looking forward to your date. As you very well know, engaging in this practice means not only loads of fun, but also abiding to some rules. Like, for instance, agreeing on a safe word with your companion to be used later on. Most importantly, though, you, as a customer, need to remember that escorts who say yes to a BDSM session have their limits.

You can’t just do anything you want with a submissive partner. Controlling yourself is key and it will contribute to a great encounter for both you and the escort. If you just do as you please, no matter the consequences, that person will never accept another date with you. Therefore, it’s very important to know the do’s and don’ts of being with a submissive companion. Let’s begin with the latter for part one of our blog post!

1. Don’t ask for activities that make her/him uncomfortable

Communication is key in every type of relationship. More so when we’re talking about BDSM. Talk to your date and find out what they like and dislike. Do it before booking them and make sure you stick to the agreement. If you change your mind during the actual encounter or ask for something else that makes your partner uneasy, they will leave at once.

2. Avoid drinking or taking substances

No one likes to spend intimate moments with someone who’s drunk or otherwise intoxicated. If you don’t have your wits about you when getting freaky with an escort, no one will have fun. On the contrary: you will end up losing your control. The line between what’s allowed and what is not allowed during a BDSM-related activity will eventually become blurry. In other words: you may end up forcing your companion past their limits. So, keep a clear head and all will be well.

3. Bring condoms and use them

Using protection while having sex with someone is great if you want to avoid STDs and unwanted pregnancies. If your companion says they’re OK with you not wearing a condom, or they themselves allow you to do it bareback, don’t just be fine with it. Say no, because in the end, both you and the escort will suffer unpleasant consequences. Better safe than sorry, right?

4. Keep it safe and legal

As with all things in this world, staying on the safe side and respecting the law goes a long way. If you attempt illegal stuff at any point during the date, the law won’t protect you. Police officers will make sure the escort you’re with doesn’t suffer damage of any kind. Likewise, should you endanger the companion you booked, you will be on their blacklist forever. And they will tell other escorts about you and your abusive behavior.

Next week we’ll tell you what you need to do to make your BDSM experience pleasant for both you and the escort.