How to Interact with Submissive Escorts - Part 2

BDSM fans, rejoice. We’re back with part two of how to interact with a submissive escort. Last week we gave you tips on what not to do when you’re with such a companion. This time, we want to tell you what to do to make the whole experience pleasant for both you and the escort you booked. Let’s dive in!

1. Browse her/his blog or website

If you’re set on choosing an entertainer who specializes in BDSM, visit their site or blog first. You’ll see a full list of services they offer and whether you’re fine with them or not. In case the escort doesn’t include all the fetishes you’re into, move on to the next provider. As soon as you’ve found the submissive person you like best, get in touch via email of phone.

2. Money first, pleasure second

As you all know, escorts offer their companionship in exchange for a donation. As soon as you walk through your date’s door, leave your envelope with money on the table next to it. If you welcome her or him at your place, put the money close to the washroom so she or he can see it after they’ve freshened up.

3. Follow the escort’s limits and rules

Every companion is different and each of them has their own set of rules you need to abide by. This is not a way to kill all the joy of the whole experience. It’s simply their method of saying “OK, now prove to me that you respect me as a person and my boundaries.” If you do that, the escort will remember how nice you were, and they’ll recommend you to all their friends. In case things go sour during the session, you’ll be asked to leave otherwise they’ll call the cops. No one wants that, right?

Likewise, maintain the discipline at all time. The submissive companion you’re with has limits that are set in stone and not to be messed with. If you ask her or him to do something they’re not comfortable with just so you can feel pleasure, they’ll leave or ask you to leave.

4. Pay attention to the safe word

All BDSM practices come with a safe word. Agree on one before starting the session and stop what you’re doing as soon as the provider says it. A safe word can be anything from “door” to “red” or “apple.”

5. Bring condoms

Want to avoid an unwanted pregnancy or STDs? We thought so. Don’t forget to bring protection and use it when things get hot and heavy. If you have health issues, tell the escort about it. Together you’ll find the best way to deal with that while still having fun together. Be honest from the get go. The escort will appreciate you even more for being straightforward instead of hiding potentially dangerous info from her.

6. Keep yourself in check

It’s very easy to get carried away during a session. That’s why controlling yourself is a must. Especially with a submissive escort who has personal limits of what they can do and what they’re uncomfortable with. Stay within the limit line and everything will be fine.

Feel free to use the comments section below to tell us if our tips worked for you!