How to Talk Dirty - Best Tips

There comes a time in every escort’s life when fun between the sheets isn’t as mind-blowing as it once was. If you’re having a dry spell or you want to avoid going through one, you might think of buying some naughty toys, role-playing, reading the Kama Sutra, and so on. You don’t have to do any of that, especially if you’re not into it.

Spicing things up in the bedroom doesn’t have to be a hassle for either partner. Why would you want to complicate stuff when you can make it simple and pleasing for everyone involved? Here’s an idea: try some dirty talking! It’s fun, it gets you in the mood, and anyone can do it, even if they’re shy.

Here’s how to tackle this awesome method of improving things in bed.

Sexy times over the phone

Have you always wanted to get wild using just your smartphone? Time to do it, since it’s one of the best ways to tease the pleasures to come in a couple of hours. Plus, you and your date can let off steam by talking about each other’s fantasies and how you’d like the magic to happen.

Phone sex works great if you aren’t living in the same neighborhood as your partner. In case you’re shy, you can start with something sweet and safe, like “What are you wearing?” As the discussion progresses, you’ll find yourself turned on by what you’re hearing from the other end. Once the nerves are gone, you’ll discover that under your innocent façade there’s a true vixen waiting to have her way.

If you’re already a wild kitty, don’t be too explicit from the beginning, because you’ll scare your client away. Take a good listen to what they communicate and act accordingly. You will notice from their tone of voice whether or not they’re adventurous and if they like you enough to have you talk dirty to them.

Sexting

One of the most exciting things you as an escort can do to turn up the heat before the actual rendezvous is to send him or her some kinky text messages. However, don’t just throw yourself into this. Take your sweet time and think how you’d like to phrase your dirty thoughts. All done with the brainstorming? Hit Send and wait. Nine out of 10 times, your client will reply ASAP.

Is this your first time sexting? Not to worry. Start with a lil’ flirting and keep it casual. You could, for example, ask them if they’d like to spend some quality time with you doing fun stuff. As soon as the guy or girl says yes, casually mention what you’re wearing. Depending on their answer, move the conversation forward. It’s all about using just the right words to keep your date interested.

If it’s not your first time doing any of this, feel free to use the most outrageous words. Unleash your inner kink goddess and they’ll love you.

Dirty pillow talk

However horny you might feel after a couple of text messages or phone talks, nothing compares to the real thing, aka sweaty lovemaking. As usual, dirty talk requires lots of communication beforehand. Ask your client to be honest about their needs and wants. Once you’ve found out their secret fantasy, get on with it and watch them moan.

Go down on them but come out for air now and then to whisper naughty things in their ear. Say what you’d like to do to them. While you’re at it, don’t forget to go into lots and lots of details. They’ll want you right then and there. Trace their body with wet kisses, use your tongue, and wait for a reaction. If they can’t hold it in anymore, you’re doing a great job and they’ll tell you as such. In case things go haywire, your client will let you know. Change your technique and you’ll be fine.