Keep the spark alive during COVID-19

10 tips on how to maintain your regulars interested!

Being an escort in such challenging times can be really difficult, especially when you’ve worked really hard on creating and maintaining a good list of regulars. The lost will be big for everyone but that doesn’t mean that we can’t do some damage control!

That’s why we came up with a few pointers regarding ways to maintain the relationship with your regulars, so that you can pick things up from where you left them when the COVID-19 madness goes away.

You can still be present in your regulars life and spark their interest for future dates, even though at the moment you can’t meet face to face. All you have to do is stay creative and fun.

First of all is important to know what your boundaries are with each and every date of yours. See who’s available for text messaging, who’s ok with talking over the phone with you and how regular and at what hours, having Skype conversations, receiving packages from you and if so, at what address, so that you can be sure that you’re not inconveniencing them, or messing up with their personal life.

When you know what your limitations are, with each and every regular of yours, it’s easy to make a plan, meant to keep the two of you close and connected, until the next real, live date.

Now, here are some suggestions of things you can do to keep his interest in you and your services, alive:

1.      Keep the communication lines open

First of all, ask him if you can text him, pm him or even call from time to time. If he says yes, then ask when it’s the best time for him to receive stuff from you or set up a code word that he can send to you, signaling that the line’s free to communicate.

Make sure you have a constant communication with your date, but without being overly clingy. Do not spam him by calling to often or sending thousands of unnecessary emails or messages. Balance is key here! Tease him to keep his interest alive, but without boring or overwhelming him. Let this part to his wife or girlfriend.

By knowing the days and hours when he’s ok with the two of you communicating is vital. This way you avoid putting him in awkward situations, with his family/girlfriend/fiancée. Also, this gives him the feeling of control over the whole situation.

2.      Imagination is your best friend

Now that we’ve established a communication plan and the boundaries between the two of you, is time to get to action. Keep him thinking about you by sending him sexy messages, or fun inside jokes between the two of you, naughty pics of yourself, or only glimpses of your naked body. Keep it fun, casual and interesting, without overwhelming him.

3.      Keep the sexual tension alive

Sexting is the perfect tool you can use these days. Sexual tension is the glue to a good, long-term escort-date relationship. So, keep his interest and desire alive with some provocative and dirty descriptions of the things you would do to him, the lingerie you are wearing, the way your body trembles only at the though of his last touches.

You’ve got this babe! Practice makes perfect and soon you’ll master the art of dirty talk, sexting, phone sex and vivid descriptions.

4.      Do things together

This is the time to reinvent yourself and your service list. So, besides some dirty talk that can lead to incredible orgasms for both of you, add into your service list “great companionship services”. It can be pretty lonely, spending time indoors these days, so take advantage of that by offering your companionship, even if we’re talking about a virtual one. Plan a sexy dinner over Skype, with you wearing an enticing outfit, play naked poker, play an online game together or watch something on YouTube or Vimeo at the same time. Its all about bonding over a mutual interest.

5.      Send him thoughtful gifts

It doesn’t have to be an expensive present, in order to be cherished by the one receiving it, because the though behind it it’s what matters. Send him a geeky t-shirt if he’s spending his time playing online games, or a box of strawberries and a can of whipped cream, telling him to savor them while imagining licking the cream off your naked body, or maybe send him a pair of your favorite panties, to have as a reminder of you!

But don’t forget! Do all of the above only after he says that it’s ok for him to receive packages from you.

6.      Watch a movie together

If you have a regular that’s into spending quality time with you, talking and taking you out to dinner, then mailing him with the suggestion of spending a night watching the same movie, can be a fantastic idea. This way you create a stronger bond and you also get to have some extra things in common to talk about.

7.      Gift him something with a meaning

There’s a lot of power in a memento. So, keep your connection with your regular alive, by offering him something with an inside meaning, that will remind him of the fun times spent in your company. Maybe he talked to you about his first car so you can send him an identical miniature car to remind him of your talk, or he told you about his passion for good whiskey, and you send him a book about the history of whiskey making. Keep it original and personal.

8.      Stay positive and fun

Remember why this relationship is working in the first place: because he has found something in you that he’s not finding at home. We’re talking about a relaxed, smiling, loving, fun to be around with, understanding and easy to talk to, woman. Offer him just that! Bring your positive energy into this situation, in order to remind him why he’s crazy about seeing YOU - his favorite escort.

9.      Video-call is the key to romance

Yes, you’re not able to meet face to face in order to re-ignite his passion and adoration for you, but you can keep things hot till your next date, by having some steamy video-calls, from time to time. Keep him wanting more, and the first thing he’ll do when the coronavirus craziness will cool down, will be to book you for a real date.

10.  Keep it short and sweet

Don’t be pushy or tiring, instead choose your timing carefully. You don’t have to give him lots of calls, emails or texts, or you risk of losing his interest in you. Keep the mystery alive and just throw him a bone once in a while – a sexy photo, a naughty text, a hot video date and so on.

Hope our advice will come in handy for you. Give it a try and see what works best for you and your regulars. The most important thing right now is to go with the flow and change your communication strategy according to the times we’re living. Have fun, be safe and let us know how our tips worked for you!