Myth debunked: The vibrator doesn’t desensitize the clit!

The vibrator is often a girl’s best friend, especially after a looooong day of being the perfect escort, always attentive, listening to all of your date’s problems and validating his needs, joining him in weird role playing games or satisfying some crazy fetishes. So, who hasn’t dreamt during a hectic workday to just lie in bed and pleasure oneself using the magical powers of a good vibrator?!

The vibrator doesn’t desensitize the clit!

Repeat that as your personal mantra if this is a thing that concerns you or any of your male of female friends.

Did you know that only 10 percent of women climax easily? Yeah, 10 percent, you’ve read it correctly! And also, most women don’t climax from penetrative sex alone, needing additional clit stimulation to come.

A good vibrator is not a replacement for a partner’s touch, but is an extra “hand”, meant for sex to be even more enjoyable! According to sex experts, vibrators don’t have a numbing effect of your clitoris, also adding that is ok to use it as much as you want as long as the intensity of the vibration doesn’t hurt you or make you feel uncomfortable.

If you are using the vibrator for a couple of hours in a row, don’t be afraid If a little numbness appears down there. It’s totally normal, is like when your arm is feeling numb after using it excessively while doing a repetitive movement. The numbness feel in your clit will disappear in no time, the clitoris just needs some time to reset and recover after a period of intense stimulation.

The vibrations are actually good for you!

The fact that the vibrations produced by sex toys can increase your chances or having an orgasm is known by pretty much everyone, but did you know that vibrations help decrease pain in the body and increase natural lubrication? And who doesn’t want some extra lube down there when the party heats up?

Feeling like your cherry is numb?

Don’t blame it on your vibrator, instead go see a gynecologist! Things like different type of medication, depression, an underlying health problem or even stress can mess up with your sensitivity downstairs, making you experience numbness of the clitoris or vulva.

For women, orgasms come from the brain and when you feel worried, stressed, depressed or tired it’s normal not to be extra sensitive and ready for multiple orgasms. Pay attention to your body, listen to what it has to say, to the warning signs and act according to those signs.

You’ve had some difficult couple of weeks, with lots of worries, sleepless nights and a hectic daily schedule? Than take a break and give yourself some well-deserved rest, and you’ll see that the sensitivity in your private areas will instantly improve.

The problem with those saying that the use of a vibrator will numb the clit is not with the supposedly problem raised by the vibrator, but with the idea of a woman pleasuring herself. Yes, masturbation is another thing that most people tend to think it’s a man’s attribute, but don’t fall for that trap.

Self-pleasuring yourself is not only really enjoyable and relaxing, but it also helps you learn more about your body and helps you guide your partners so they can also improve their love making skills and ability to make a woman come!