Rules of Conduct When You Date a Client From Another Culture!

As we said many times before, the escort business is really a BUSINESS and you have to treat it accordingly! Escorting implies a lot of traveling and dealing with clients of different cultures.

If you plan on going to tour another country, or even continent, in order to promote your escort services or to reestablish the connection with older clients you must go with your homework done! And that means finding out specific characteristics of the men you are going to meet – the meaning of particular gestures, things not to say or do, rules of behavior, dress code and so on!

Knowing the rules of conduct specific for every country and culture can guarantee that you will not commit errors that can compromise your relationship with your client. Also, seeing your devotion in learning things about their culture can really impress your clients and can make them contact you in many other occasions.

Being a high class escort does not involve just a pretty face and a beautiful body, it also implies being a well-educated woman that knows how to act in the society and that is aware of the rules of conduct in every situation.

Dating a Saudi man – what to say and how to act

Dear escorts, when dating a Saudi client you must be aware of some rules of conduct that you must apply. Even if we are talking about a very open minded person, the influence of the culture that he grew up in, can still be very strong!

Always use your right hand when you gesture, eat or touch someone because in the Arabic culture the left hand is considered to be unclean.

When you sit down with your date in public, remember not to cross your legs. Always keep both of your feet on the ground.

In the Arabic countries pointing something with your finger or using the thumbs-up gesture is considered rude, even if gesturing while speaking is very common in this part of the world.

Make eye contact and speak vividly

You shouldn’t be surprised if you see two Saudi men walking hand in hand, as a gesture of friendship. Also, in the Saudi culture the conversations are enthusiastic, with people speaking loudly and rising the tone, all those being perceived as signs of sincerity.

In the escort business, the eye contact is important when you want to make an impression, and this applies also when you are in an Arabic country. In the Saudi countries it is advisable to remove the sunglasses and look your date directly in the eyes when talking to him.

Conversation Topics – what to say and what to avoid

Conversations is a very important aspect for a Saudi man, so you must prepare for the date with some conversation topics:

-          Praise the Saudi cuisine, dress code and unique architecture, because the Arabic men are very proud of their cultural inheritance.

-          Ask about the health and happiness of men members of the family like brothers, cousins, sons and so on.

-          When you feel the conversation lingers you can always ask about sports – like football, horse and camel racing and falconry.

-          Don’t talk about sensible topics like politics or bad things like accidents and illness because it is considered to bring bad luck.

-          In public avoid to use gestures of affection and wearing extravagant and revealing clothes.

Dating an Asian man – what to say and how to act

China and Japan are not touch-oriented countries, thus touching is rare. This also applies to public display of affection. Holding hands is accepted but other more intimate gestures are not seen with good eyes.

Unlike Saudi countries, in Japan and China you should avoid prolonged eye contact because it can be intimidating and it is considered a rude gesture. While touring a country like Japan you should avoid laughing, yawning and blowing your nose in public! Those are also considered rude gestures.

Unlike other countries in Asia, the Philippines is a touch-oriented country, and public display of affection is accepted.

When interacting with Asian people or visiting their countries try to be sensitive to their culture and understand their body language, because in some cases you may find yourself doing something accepted in your country but considered rude in their country.

Things you should avoid doing in Asian countries:

-          never get angry in public because it is very uncomfortable for them

-          never address people by their first name;

-          never accept food or drink without refusing them a few times, because in the Asian culture a good guest is supposed to refuse at least once, but a good host is also supposed to make the offer at least twice.

Hand gestures with double meaning according to the country you’re in:

-          The Thumbs Up

Although in America and Europe you use the thumbs-up to signal that everything is ok, avoid using this gesture in Islamic and Asian countries because it is perceived as a rude and offensive gesture, meaning “stick it where the sun doesn’t shine”. And even if it’s a gesture comfortable for some in private…fulfilling some of their desires, it really isn’t indicated to show it in public. In Australia doing the thumbs up sign and moving it up and down is also a grave insult.

-          The Dog Call

The dog call is a gesture where you curl your finger and call someone toward you. Although in the escort business ladies use this gesture with an alluring sense, meaning “come here”, do not use it while you are in Philippines because this gesture is used only to call prostitutes.

-          The OK sign

This gesture is used in Europe and USA to say that everything is fine, but don’t use it when you are with a Turkish client because the OK sign means one is a homosexual! And you really don’t want to hurt the masculinity of a man client.

-          The gesture of Looking at your Clock

This gesture is generally used to hurry up a date, but we don’t advice you to use it when you are with a client from one of the Arabic countries because it’s a rude insult.

-          The Corona or the Rock On

Also for the fans of heavy metal this gesture means “rock on” or “what’s up”. The same gesture, in Spain and Italy means that your partner is cheating on you. So if your client takes you to a concert be careful what gestures are you going to make so that you don’t end up upsetting your partner.

Remember that you are more than a pretty woman, ready for a fast sexual encounter! You are a smart, sensual and seductive escort that can use her assets in order to turn a man into a long term client. And a long term client means a profitable business for you!