Social Intelligence is what makes YOU a TOP Escort!

Are you able to “read” the room you’re entering, or the people you sit in front of? You easily get social cues around you?

Before answering those two questions let us come with a short explanation of terms:

“Reading a Room” – is the ability to understand what the general vibe of those populating the room you’re entering, is. By knowing the general vibe of the place, you can easily adapt to it, avoiding an embarrassing situation.

For example, if everyone in the room was discussing a tragic event that has taken place, and everyone seems taken by the gravity of the subject, by knowing to “read the room” you won’t make the mistake of entering the place all cheerful and smiling, being loud or dropping a joke.

“Reading a Person” – is the ability of briefly mapping the person in front of you, doing a little bit of Sherlock work getting all the signs you might need to understand what type of person you’re dealing with.

By knowing how to briefly read a person you can find out useful information about them, such as: if it’s an extrovert or an introvert, depending on their posture, if they are elegant or sporty depending on their choice in clothes, if they are loud and bubbly or toned down and chilling, depending on the drink they are having, if they are the more conservative type or artsy type, depending on their hairstyle and color choice in clothes, nails or accessories, and so on.

“Social Cues” – these are signals that can be both verbal or non-verbal, that should influence our reactions, impressions, and general interactions with others. Social cues vary from non-verbal signals that we get from the face, body, voice, and body motion of the ones around us, to verbal signals that should influence as to have a certain reaction.

Reading social cues help us know when to leave an event, because the host is tired, when to change a subject, or when we’ve hit a painful topic.

How Social Intelligence will help YOU!

If your answer to those two questions mentioned above is YES, then you can proudly say that you are “Socially Intelligent”.

Social Intelligence is the ability to enter a room and navigate the event/conversation being able to shape your gestures, behavior, tone of voice, according to the situation you’re in or the person you’re talking to, making thus a very good impression, and creating a feeling of warmth, comfort, and familiarity to those with whom you’re interacting.

And this, my darlings, is the best asset you can have as an escort nowadays! Because by working on your social skills, and by being able to read the social cues of the person you’re with, you can shape your speech and your gestures to your advantage.

Image how useful is for you, during a date, to be able to “read” the man in front of you. Men tend to be less talkative then women and less descriptive when it comes to their requests and expectations, but by opening your eyes and just observing him, by looking at the way he sits, the way he holds his hands, he crosses his legs, the color scheme of his clothes, the way he makes eye contact or avoids your look, his impatience or sluggish nature, you know from the very start in what typology of  clients he fits and even if you want him or not, as your client.

You will know how to touch him, what sex toys to choose, how to talk to him and how to make him come back for more!

Being sexy, funny, horny in bed, yes are all good assets for an escort, but being able to read the person that sits in front of you gives you the greatest asset of them all: the power to shape your behavior to meet his needs. And this is what makes a normal client turn into a regular!

So, pay attention to everything that happens around you, when you enter a room, look at the faces of the ones around you, check out their gestures, try to guess their mood, or what they are saying, and when you have all that figured out, you’ll be unstoppable as a professional escort.

Social Intelligence is a muscle that needs practice, so next time you’re in a restaurant discreetly look and analyze the people standing around you; next time you go to a social event lay low and look at the ones around you as if you were looking at a movie or a play, and just analyze them.

Exercise the social intelligence “muscle” and use it with your dates. You’ll soon notice the improvement in your interactions, and an increase in the number of clients coming back for a second date!