Stop getting all of your sex ideas from porn! 5 porn related activities to avoid doing in bed.

Dear gents, are you looking at porn movies as a source of inspiration for spicing up your sex life? You are fantasizing about the day when one of your sexual encounters will look exactly like an adult movie, full of acrobatic positions, multiple orgasms, sex that lasts for hours, double penetration, crazy sex toys and breath stopping climaxes?

Well, you should stop fantasizing and understand that many of the things that you are seeing in porn are unrealistic and inapplicable in real life.

Here are some of the sex moves that most women wish you wouldn’t use during your erotic encounter:

1.      A race to check as many positions as possible during sex

You are watching porn and you see the couple changing positions every couple of minutes and you want to try that? Keep in mind that the quality is always more important than quantity and that you don’t have to be a sex bunny in order to have the most incredible sexual experience of your life.

Also, why changing a position after just a few minutes, if it makes you and your partner feel great? Only for the sake of diversity? If your lady is in ecstasy in that particular position, why stop and change it?

Of course multiple positions during sex are fun and exciting, but not when they are seen as things that need to be checked on a “to do” list. In porn, on the other hand, changing positions constantly is a must in order for the viewer not to get bored.

2.      Stop using spit as lubricant

Using spit as lubricant is just a lazy way of going around foreplay and the steps that are leading towards a well-lubricated partner. Spiting on your partner’s pussy in order to get her wet is a practice frequently used in porn, but that doesn’t make it right for the bedroom.

This porn move has to go from your bedroom practice, because there is no place for laziness and shortcuts while having sex! No lady wants you to drool over her naked body, so leave the move to porn performers.

3.      Less tongue action is sometimes better

The ear is a very erogenous area, with a lot of nervous terminations, but that doesn’t mean that you have to stick your entire tongue into it. Slowly lick it and chew on the lobe and the result will be way better.

Also too much tongue can ruin cunnilingus for your date! You don’t go down to give her a bath with your tongue so stop doing that disgusting thing and start learning the proper cunnilingus techniques.

Even if you see it in porn, that doesn’t make it automatically enjoyable or climax leading. And even if you see a porn star doing it, that doesn’t mean he is an expert lover.

4.      Thrusting for hours

You see in porn how male performers are thrusting continuously for a long period of time and you dream of the moment when you will reach that performance? Well, then you should keep in mind that sex is not like sport…. meant to keep you fit, to burn calories and to prove how resistant your body is. Sex means pleasure, lust, desire, mind blowing sensations and erotic moves.

Even if you are a god in bed and you can last for hours, don’t forget about your partner and check, from time to time, if she is still enthusiastic about your long performance. You can have a mind blowing thrust, but if the lady is tired and bored, then everything is in vain.

5.      Screams of intense pleasure and moans of delight

We all know that when watching porn, we have to turn down the volume because of all the intense and high pitched screams of pleasure. That’s why most men expect to hear the same kind of exaltation when they have sex in real life.

But wild, exaggerated screaming is just part of the performance…so stop grading your sexual abilities according to the screams of pleasure that you manage to get from your sex partner.

Some of the ladies may not be screamers, while others may be more into moaning and scratching…just like some men are silent during sex, while others are more vocal.

So keep watching porn for fun but try to better filter the things that can be reproduced in bed from the ones that are just for show.

Communicate with your partner, see what are each other’s likes and dislikes when it comes to sex and you’ll see that in this way you’ll have the mind-blowing sex you dream of!