The Girlfriend Experience vs The Porn Star Experience

If you’re new to the escorting world and you want to learn as much as possible before meeting your first client, today we’ll tell you about PSE and GFE. They’re two of the most frequent words in the industry and they stand for Porn Star Experience and Girlfriend Experience. 

Does any of that sound like something you’d like to offer as a service? In case you’re not sure yet, let’s see what the difference between GFE and PSE actually is. Based on that, you’ll soon know whether you want to try one or both of them out!

The Porn Star Experience

Both male and female clients can’t wait to try various sex positions from their favorite adult movies in real life. Which means you will have to be an expert on all things kinky and wild. That can include BDSM, gang banging, deep throat, roleplaying, toys, anal, and so on. Cuddle and slow kisses won’t exist at all. You need to be very open-minded for this whole thing to work and aware that it’s going to be all about hard, fast, and most likely rough acts.

How to prepare

Your customer will book you so that she or he can live out their fantasies with you in an atmosphere of deep trust and understanding. Before anything can happen, we suggest talking to your client about what they’d like you to do for them during your time together. Also, as a rule of thumb: during a PSE, you should always keep condoms close by or gently remind your client to bring some, preferably thicker ones. You might also think of taking extra care of your pubic hair. Have it either trimmed or shaved, to add to the illusion that you’re an adult star.

Have fun

Get ready to spend several hours with someone who wants a PSE session. You’ll feel very tired at the end of your encounter, but it’s going to be worth it. The sensations are incredible and they’ll turn your world upside down pleasure-wise. Not only will your client feel satisfied, you’ll also see what it’s like to experience those amazing positions you’ve been fantasizing about while watching a porn movie.

Remember: show the guy or girl you’re with that you like what the two (or three or more!) of you are doing. They’ll know if you fake it and they’ll write a negative review in online forums. Think of naughty scenarios and act on them during the encounter. This will spice things up and make for a glorious rendezvous.

The Girlfriend Experience

GFE is the exact opposite of the PSE. Your partner either doesn’t have a girlfriend yet or the one they’re with ignores them. Your role is to play the sweet girlfriend who takes care of him or her and treats them like they’ve always wanted to be treated. Basically, you’ll be the one they come to after a long hard day at work or with relatives, expecting to be listened to and then comforted.

The mechanics of it

The girlfriend experience is more than just steamy sex whenever, wherever. For starters, you’ll go on dates, talk, and laugh about this or that. Then you’ll go to their place or yours, kiss, cuddle, and end the night with passionate or slow lovemaking. To make a great impression on your partner, you have to be attentive to their needs, loving, smart, and bubbly. You should be able to hold a conversation about various topics and be fun to be with.

When someone books you for a GFE, be prepared to meet them not just for an hour or two. Your client might want to spend either the night or a weekend with you. Why? Because they want to know you better and build a connection with you that goes beyond pleasures of the flesh.

Ready to give the PSE and the GFE a try? Let us know how it went.