The Perils Of Escorting! Things To Be Careful About

The escorting industry may seem a charming, glamorous place, very attractive for the ones eager to make a name for themselves and to make it as adult entertainers. But it is also a place full of temptations and risks.

So, try to make an informed decision before going too deep in this line of work. See what the risks are, the disadvantages, the potential negative sides, the problems and then take a few steps back and analyse yourself, see if you are strong enough in front of temptation and if you really are up for the task. Weight the pluses and the minuses and see if you are made for the escorting business.

 1.      Watch out for the way to zealous fans!

You have probably heard about stalkers and people becoming obsessed over someone and you may be tempted to think that this kind of things will never happen to you. But, keep in mind that, as an escort, you will attract a big number of weird people, fans and stalkers that will want to get in touch with you, spend their time in your company, follow you and obtain objects that belong to you, as souvenirs.

This kind of people does not have boundaries and they tend to invade your privacy. It is a risk that you will have to take and you have to be aware of it from the beginning! In this line of work, you will have to deal with all kind of crazy people, so prepare yourself for that, make a plan of action and a back-up plan if your fan crosses the line or turns out to be dangerous.

2.      Be smart about your money

When you find yourself in front of a big sum of money that appears to be the double, if not even more, of what you have used to produce before, it’s easy to freak out and go a little crazy with the spending. You will be tempted to satisfy all of your pleasures and desires and it is ok to do that at first, but do not turn that behaviour into a regular one.

Be responsible and think ahead! Understand that you won’t be able to do this job forever and make a financial plan so that you can save some money for the rainy days. Spoil yourself once in a while but do not overdo it. Instead think of the things that you enjoy doing and make a plan for your future activity.

Be goal oriented, think about a business that you will like to start or a business that you would like to invest your money in and keep your eyes on that goal. This way it will be easier for you not to get lost in this line of work and keep yourself grounded.

3.      Be careful about the friends you make

In the escorting world is pretty hard to create real connections and make good, trustworthy friends. So be prudent and don’t rush into pouring your soul out or telling your life story to everyone. Envy is everywhere, especially in this line of work and so is sabotage and betrayal. Be discreet about your earning and regular clients and simply avoid talking about your job with other people. Jealousy brings out the worst in everyone so do not stir things by talking about your activity, your money, your travels or your sugar daddies to anyone.

4.      Be prepared to meet mean people

In the escorting business one thing it is certain – that you will meet all kind of mean and insulting people. From people doing the same job as you are, to clients looking to spit their venin in front of someone. So, prepare yourself for the worst scenario ever, this way you will not be caught off guard.

Some clients just need someone to pour their problems and frustrations in front of. They may criticize you, your looks or your skills in bed, they may be hurtful with their words and harsh, but you can’t let them get to you. You are there to offer them an experience and if they are not able to fully enjoy it, just stop meeting that client in the future.

The point is that you have to prepare yourself mentally, to have a strong mind and spirit and not to let yourself down in front of mean people.

5.      Get ready to be exhausted

When you are new in this business you have to work twice as much in order to make a name for yourself, to make an impression and to create your own database of clients. This, plus all the novelties brought by your new lifestyle – the long hours and irregular schedule, will wear you out and make you tired, exhausted and emotionally unstable.

Prepare yourself for that by setting up some rules – certain foods you need to eat, a certain number of hours of sleep per day, set a vitamin intake and always keep one day free, just for you.

It is easy to lose yourself in the mirage of the apparently easy money and high lifestyle, but this is a slippery slope and you might find yourself on a wrong path. So be organised and treat escorting like a business, with goals, working hours and free time.

6.      Don’t forget who you are

As an escort you frequently need to play a certain role, to be someone you’re not, to adapt to a certain requirement and this makes it easy for you to lose yourself and to face an identity crisis.

So, try to separate your escort persona from who you really are and do that by setting boundaries and creating certain moments just for you, dedicated to all the things that you really enjoy doing – like reading a good book, watching a romantic comedy, going on a city break with your friends or playing with you cat.

It’s easy to become a victim of this way of life but it’s just as easy to stay balanced and to set up a set of rules to guide you in your new life. Remember that escorting is just a business, a part of who you are and that’s why it doesn’t represent your entirely.

Enter this line of work fully informed and you will be able to set up a barrier between work and your true personality!