Which is Better? Dating or Booking an Escort?

In all honesty, dating and seeing an escort are only similar in theory because the differences just cannot be ignored. You’ve probably heard it everywhere, from your friends, from television, from famous pop songs – there’s this tacit understanding that paying for sex or any other kind of human comfort is wrong. But how can a profession that has lasted through the ages be wrong?

Our morals and values have changed, our economic sectors have shifted, and our needs have multiplied to the point where wi-fi becomes as important a need as safety. And in all of this, escorting has maintained an unquestionable foothold. So, how is it that we still see it as being wrong?

Let’s compare it to dating. Men are still expected, despite significant gender changes, to ask women out on a couple of dates before moving forward. Most of the times, when you date, you withhold information or desires because they would be considered inappropriate. It’s an excruciating ritual, which doesn’t lead to anything 75% of the times. On top of it all, it’s not free! Similar to booking an escort, through dating you are merely paying for human comfort over a longer period of time – or, rather, the possibility of receiving human comfort. So, dating is expensive, time-consuming and a surprising waste of energy.

Now, don’t get us wrong. We’re not telling you to not date. If you’re looking for a partner or a lover for a longer period of time, a person who you can bond with completely, dating’s the way to go. However, if you’re just looking for a little bit of fun one time or a couple of times a month, somebody who will listen to you and who you can be completely honest with, then booking an escort is the best thing you could do.

With a companion, you’re getting exactly what you want, when you want it. There are no silly games to play, unless you like that kind of thing, and no need to keep secrets. Escorts are charming and discreet, beautiful and passionate, and, most importantly, they know how to read you and your desires. They’re eager to please and not only that.

One of the worries that most people have when booking an escort is that the escort won’t enjoy it and that’s when paying for sex becomes an issue, but that’s a myth. Most companions love getting physical and are very open-minded. Making you happy makes them happy as well. You see, the act of giving pleasure, when consensual, does not work one-way.

Let’s look at it from another perspective. If you see a therapist and you pay him/her money for their time, do you feel guilty about that? No? Well, why not? After all, it’s the same thing. You’re paying an individual to let you be the centre of attention. There’s nothing wrong with that – it’s a service. The only difference is that one meeting usually involves more clothing than another. So, next time somebody tries to make you feel bad about seeing or being an escort, you tell them how it really is! There’s no place for hypocrisy in this world.  

(Pictured above is an escort from Lisa Top Companions, located in Brussels, Belgium)