WHY we SCREEN our dates. A GUIDE for CLIENTS!

Ladies, post this on your website, if you have one, or send it to the clients that ask you a lot of questions regarding your screening methods and their necessity. Screening is the most important aspect of an escort life, if that escort values her safety and time, so don’t skip this step only because you’re afraid of losing a client or two.

Remember, if he refuses to date you because of your screening, then it’s better not to date him at all, because his refusal is a major red flag for your safety.

So, here’s why we screen our dates, and how it is not about our lack of confidence in you, but about our desire to be safe!

Screening is an escort’s safety protocol, that allows her to select from the bad apples the good ones that seem trustworthy.

But keep in mind that even when the screening goes perfectly well and you provide the best references and information possible, dating is closely connected to intuition and feelings, so if any internal alarms are being triggered by you or the gut feeling of an escort says the two of you should not meet, maybe because of lack of compatibility, then your dating request can very well be rejected. Don’t take it personal, just find another escort with whom you will click instantly. It’s just like in traditional dating, we don’t all match, but we surely have someone just for us out there.

What are escorts afraid off, that make them screen their dates?

Because we are talking about face-to-face dates and about a close human interaction and a very intimate aspect of this interaction, escorts are exposed to a higher risk of meeting a bad guy such as a rapist, a killer, a robber, or an abuser.

Anonymity comes with a lot of power, the power to harm without being held responsible, the power to show our most hidden and perverse nature without feeling ashamed.

Don’t look at screening as an invasion of your privacy, instead think of it like this: if your mother, sister, cousin, best friend would want to date a person that she has meet online, wouldn’t you want her to ask that person some questions to make sure everything will be ok and that she will return safely back home at the end of the date?

That’s what screening does for an escort. Is an encouragement that she will safely return home at her family, kids, friends and so on, at the end of a date!

It is not as if we consider you a bad guy or your word doesn’t mean anything, but we just can’t know, and we can’t trust you simply because you say you’re ok.

“I promise I’m a nice guy. I wouldn’t hurt a woman, never ever!” I don’t say you would, but for me is a Russian Roulette. Don’t get mad and understand that for us screening is a necessity. And take it like this – if you’ve seen other escorts that didn’t screened you, what is saying that about them and about the quality of dates she’s been having and would you risk seeing a woman that accepts that easily to date a stranger, even if it is for a couple of hours or for an overnight experience?!

So, let’s work together on this, let us screen you offering out assurance that every information is confidential and that we are true professionals, and we won’t do anything to affect your personal or professional life, because a bad rating from you can be devastating for us!